Ok, great story - My brother went to a Marriage-strengthening-type weekend. One of the take-aways that I loved was one of the marriage therapists presenting talked about a man who came in complaining about his wife. He told him to write down all of her flaws on one side of the paper. After he was done, the therapist said "OK, now on the other side, write down what flaws you would like to replace those flaws with".

The man stared blankly. "No, you don't understand. I want to get rid of these f...
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